Put humor to work
for you It's a funny thing about humor. Everybody loves it, yet most
people fear it. Using it in their speeches, that is. They have a deep-seated
belief that, if they try using humor, and it doesn't go over, they
will end up with egg all over their face.
This is an understandable
fear, but it doesn't need to be if you learn some of the tried and
true humor techniques used by experienced speakers and presenters.
We will tell you about some of these in a moment, but first what is
it about humor that makes it so powerful?
This wonderful
explanation was written at age 85 by Sam Ervin, Jr., the U.S. Senator
from North Carolina who earned fame for leading the investigation
of the Watergate scandal:
"Humor," he said,
"is one of God's most marvelous gifts. Humor gives us smiles, laughter,
and gaiety. Humor reveals the roses and hides the thorns. Humor makes
our heavy burdens light and smooths the rough spots in our pathways.
Humor endows us with the capacity to clarify the obscure, to simplify
the complex, to deflate the pompous, to chastise the arrogant, to
point a moral, and to adorn a tale."
One of the best
sources of humor for speeches and presentations, and one that is almost
devoid of any risk, are humorous quotations. If the audience laughs
loudly, that's wonderful. If you get a good chuckle, that's wonderful,
too. And if no one laughs, nothing is lost because you have made your
point anyway.
There are thousands
and thousands of humorous quotations in the IdeaBank files. Just type
in the subject you are interested in and add the word humor. Example:
politics humor, winning humor, etc.
Another wonderful
source of homespun humor in IdeaBank's Quotation file are thousands
of proverbs from all over the world. Just pick the subject you want
and type it in the Quotations query box, (example: stinginess proverb
humor).
IdeaBank's Humor
file contains a combination of longer-form jokes and short one-liners.
Look at these humor entries as "bricks and mortar" to fashion your
own personalized brand of humor. For example, tell the joke as if
it had actually happened to you, not to some fictitious third party.
Never begin with any of the stock openings such as "It seems there
was this country preacher," etc. Say, instead, "We had a preacher
in our home town who," etc. Don't think you have to start your presentation
with a joke, or Heaven forbid, two jokes, to warm up the audience.That
is the beauty of humorous quotations. You can weave them into your
speech where their point is most relevant and as a change of pace
for the audience.
Before we forget
it, there are hundreds of novel ways to begin and close a speech,
many of them containing humor. You can access these by selecting the
Humor file and then searching under speech opening, speech closing,
etc.If, by any chance, it falls to you to put together a "Roast" for
a friend or associate, you can bring up hundreds of ideas for this
by simply typing in the Humor query box, roast.
We hope we have
convinced you that putting some humor in your speech or presentation
is an absolute necessity, even if the prospect seems daunting to you.
Consider this testimony by the Wall Street investment banker Pete
Peterson, who is in demand as a speaker all over the world:
"I frequently
meet up with someone who has heard me speak months or years before
and they will compliment me on the fine speech I gave. But they never
play back to me the serious remarks I made. They always remember some
bit of humor I used to dramatize a serious point."
For this reason,
Peterson has developed what he calls the Peterson Principle. "If you
want anything to stick to the bone, use some humor that is relevant
to your message."
So don't be afraid
of spicing up your next speech or presentation with appropriate humor.
Remember that "a little bit of sugar helps the medicine go down."
And if telling "jokes" isn't your style, don't force it. But do try
using humorous quotations and anecdotes. You can't miss.
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IdeaBank
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